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Cake day: June 23rd, 2023

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  • Hey there. In my house, both of us have issues. Pain is a daily part of our lives.

    Communication!

    The first time you tell her you can’t do X because reasons; you’re going to ( may) feel like an ahole. But here’s the thing, you have another person you’ve already taking care of… yourself. And if you don’t have any downtime to rest you won’t be able to take care of her.
    Not justifying being the AH, but have to tell her when you’re running on empty.

    Talk to her about it. Service like this is hard.

    Good luck